Wedding
Ceremony Checklist:
The
idea of spending your rest of the life with someone you
love or you can love and rely on is something most
beautiful on this earth. No doubt marriage brings many
compromises and sacrifices too but the togetherness
and support which it brings with itself is something
which is the essence of this relationship. To bind two
souls, hearts and bodies forever sacred ceremony of
wedding has to be performed. Every religion and culture
has its own way to perform the wedding ceremony but no
matter what the specific rituals are there are few
preparations and planning which every wedding ceremony
has to take into account to make it a success.
Following
is a wedding ceremony checklist which one must go
through to make sure everything is in line before the
grand day:
-
Finalize a
Wedding Ceremony date, keeping in mind the
holidays and other sacred days or events which
might not be suitable for the wedding.
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Decide
outfits for the bride, bridesmaid, groom and
groomsman. Look for all the dressing
accessories.
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Select and
order dress for bride and groom’s
parents.
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Set
parlor appointments.
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Book the
church or any
other venue for wedding ceremony in advance. This
must be done well in advance preferably 6 to 12
months before the wedding date.
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Decide on
the wedding ceremony type if the bride and
groom have different faiths.
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Decide on
the promises and other clauses to be filled in the
wedding documents so as to avoid surprises
on the wedding day, for example, deciding the
amount to be given in case of divorce (in Asian
cultures) or the promises which bride and groom
will make or will decide not to make.
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Decide if
your wedding ceremony would be double ring
ceremony o single ring.
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Set
wedding budget and create a payment
monitoring system
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Decide on
the guest list and make sure seating
arrangement is adequate.
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Decide on
the color scheme, theme and other
decorations of the venue.
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For
photography of the wedding ceremony check
with the church if it allow photography not.
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Send
invitations to
guests.
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Assign
duties to wedding
party like nominate someone to take care of gifts,
make someone the supervisor, designate someone to
take care of food and stuff etc.
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Make tip
envelops in advance.
Shop for wedding gifts.
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Arrange for
the wedding car.
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Don’t
overlook minor things which are easily
forgettable. Take into account everything which can
effect your preparations and planning for example
rain, last minute arrival of unexpected guests
etc.
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Arrange for
the wedding reception as it will follow the
wedding ceremony.
Once
you are declared as husband and wife take a deep breath
and thanks god for his blessings. Now get ready for your
wedding reception. Hope you have prepared the wedding
reception checklist too and have checked through all the
items in advance. Enjoy, after all it’s your day! May
this day leave memories which you can cherish
forever!
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